DAILY TIP FOR A BETTER DAY: SEXY NIGHT!!

My life has not been glamours lately. I spend a lot of time with my computer, writing my new book and look for a J-O-B that pays money, but like Cyndi Lauper taught me years ago, girls still need to have some fun. In order to honor my inner Cindi I devised a plan that has seemed to really work, that plan is something I call, "SEXY NIGHT!" (Notice the "Y" guys!)

It doesn't matter if you are single, taken or alone, here is how the plan works. Call up your girls, or try and get your man on board and let them know you are spending a whole night devoted to having fun, being sexy and enjoying it FOR NO REASON other than to do it. Make reservations at your favorite restaurant, or cook in. You can go as BIG or as small with this as money allows, but just do it.

Get a dress, or break out a old one you have only worn once or twice. We don't need an invitation to a party or some fancy party as a reason to look good, feel good and have fun. WE CAN CREATE OUR OWN PLACES TO BE!! You can get dressed up fancy, in that little black dress and go to McDonald's with the girls. (Although as a health freak I wouldn't recommend that cuisine, you get the point.)

DON'T WAIT FOR A REASON - CREATE THE REASON! So get on your favorite outfit, phone a friend, feel good and be the best you there is!! HAPPY FRIDAY AND HAVE A SAFE WEEKEND FILLED WITH LOVE AND A SEXY NIGHT!!

Be blessed until Tuesday,

Lucy D.

DAILY TIP FOR A BETTER DAY: JUST SAY THESE 3 WORDS!

I'm back, feeling better, but not without a little damage.

You know when you are having the worst day? You are tired, or maybe sick or maybe just have your grumpy pants on? It's so easy to blame the person in traffic, your boss, or the person with 15 items in the 10 item or less line. The worst is though when you get home, and you still are angry, but now the bad driver is home, your boss is done work, the person in front of you has unpacked their groceries, but you are left with the bad feelings. The result, for me at least is I tend to act like a JACKASS.

I am mean, usually to the people I love. I am short tempered and rude and do things I don't even want to do. I hate that. I hate being that person, but instead of hating what you did and then just digging yourself deeper and deeper, I have a tip and trick to turn your grumpy mean pants around and make your day better. Ready? It's as simple as this: Just say sorry.

That's it, it's that easy. Just say sorry. Last night it took me eight hours of tossing and turning, not sleeping, being even more rude, but I finally caved and said "sorry." You couldn't imagine the almost immediate release of anger from my body. It disappeared quicker than a brownie from my counter when it's that time of the month.

Were there problems that needed to be talked about, in my case yes, but sometimes you can just say sorry and that is the end of the anger, the grump pants and your bad day. I always find it so funny, it takes just three words most days, I AM SORRY, and they sometimes are the last thing people thing of.

So today's tip to a better day; just say it, say "sorry." You'll be surprised how things start to turn around.

Be blessed until tomorrow,

Lucy D.

THE FLU STILL OWNS ME...

Although I'm getting better, the flu still currently owns me people. There will be more tips and tricks to living your best, brightest and sexiest life very very soon. But for now, I am back to bed!

Be blessed until tomorrow,

Lucy D.

Daily Tip: Don't get the FLU!!

Sorry readers I've been sick for days so not much energy for writing, but promise to be back soon!
In the meantime here are some upsides of the flu so far that I've found:

Positives of the flu:
1.I have come to know my toilet bowel more intimately
2.I lost five pounds
3.Sleep, sleep and more sleep
4.I don't have to pick up my phone and talk to those silly bill people
5.I get to give my body a break!

Be blessed and flu free!!!

Lucy D.